what does the dimm reset Column in the spreadsheet mean?
In terms of what game support linking it's all in my Omnibus NAOMI spreadsheet here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1JWvoMhuFz2XXRWB6XPmE4k0Vkt2VYgUQ4K_61LXv6UA/edit?usp=sharingStuff is scattered all over the place and not in great detail.
most of the games that probably don't support it were never checked for linking options (those that have the linking field left blank) but I'd suspect all of the supported games are there.
Some of the games you have listed in your first post DONT actually support linking, they just support some kind of VS setup where 1 NAOMI shares 2 CRTs. I mean I guess they allow for daisy chaining JVS IOs, but that's something completely different and really should have it's own separately tracked list.
As for linking there's not much to it
1. install com board.
2. daisy chain NAOMI units together via optical cable (TX to RX in a loop just like older Sega Model system games)
3. enable options in game test mode, usually setting one unit to "master" and the rest as "slave" though the exact setting varies from game to game.