Well put.Good lord...
While your intent makes sense, you have to know your audience. Now, while the seller IS an ass, he's a very reputable one and if you're in the hobby for any amount of time you'd recognize that.
Checks out. Going to ruin my reputation for $425USD.Payments through Friend & family are borderline scams nowadays, many groups or forums don't even allow it to prevent frauds. It's red flag right there and it's also against Paypal policies.
If the seller didn't want to take more pics or whatever he could have just said so, no need to insult other members.