I ended up using a SC 4.9 FL (
https://www.mouser.com/ProductDetail/Visaton/SC-49-FL-8-ohm?qs=juaAHce7PkUuD6%2BMGBYQWQ==) in the middle position and this Sony 1-529-595-11 (
https://ebay.us/SScCGc) in the bottom position.
I kept them wired in series, I probably should have put them in parallel to stay at 8 ohms but I also don't know what the Sony speaker is rated at (measuring with an ohm meter was ~6 ohms so it could go either way.) Also it sounds fine. I'm using a Sega Naomi amp.
The SC 4.9 kinda sounds meh. They're clear but they definitely lack bass on their own. I would not recommend using 2x2 of them. They do fit easily as they're smaller than the original speakers. You can drill 4 new holes if you center them. They cause little to no deformation of the speaker box.
I think the original tweeters are kind of shitty too but I didn't really look at them to see if they can be replaced easily enough. They're so piercing.
The Sony speaker sounds nice and fits at an angle so you can get two screws in the original mounting holes. I went with this instead of cutting the box. I wanted to find a solution that doesn't require damaging modifications or 3d printing or anything like that.
I don't really like the Sony speaker as a solution though since it seems to be discontinued and only available from "some guy on ebay." They're also way too expensive at $30 each after shipping. I would experiment further but I absolutely hate pulling these speakers out, and you don't get the full effect of the speaker til its in the cabinet. The biggest reason I'm using the Sony speakers is because I paid for them. I really wouldn't recommend them.
I will say that I temporarily used a single Aura NS2x3-184-4A (which is 4 ohms, I really cant get that right can I) with tape over the other hole and that sounds fine. I think the best bang for your buck fix is using 2x2 of these. They mount ok if you drill new holes for the screws. The backside of the cone part of the frame fits the best out of everything I bought that's a 2"x3". And they're only $7 or so. You definitely want to tape up any gaps. If you don't, it'll kill the bass. The speaker box plastic is pretty forgiving so even with the front totally deformed from the ill fitting speakers, all the screws still went in the side cover.
Here's some pics:
https://imgur.com/a/i8VsDXf