Ok Peeps, finally got the parts needed and made the first batch of reset harness kits. They are meant to be plug and play, basically for people that do not want to cut/splice/solder anything.
I am not a pro at this, I am sure most people here can do a better job. In order to keep it simple and low cost I used all off the shelf parts.
Now, I only made a small batch of these and basically all of them are spoken for, some people have not responded so I might have a couple to sell. If there is enough interest I might make more of these "kits"
If you only want the splice harness for the fans that connects to the relay I can do that easy enough, let me know.
Here are some other pics:
Complete Kit
Had to stack the headers like so, I will include spacers to support the PBCs
*Note - If you dont want to use the red inbetween board just solder the wires to your Pi directly.
Relay Shot - Connection to fans
Relay Shot - Connection to Pi
There are the splice harnesses for the fans
Kit will work with both the Naomi I & II
You can place the relay right under the main board, it has plenty of clearance.